DALE and ERMA SCRITCHFIELD

 

Erma tells:  I was born in Centerville, Appanoose County, Iowa on April17, 1924 to Ira and Ruth Tarrence McConnell.  I was one of a family of six children. From oldest to youngest - Lowell, Wauneita, Miriam, Erma, Joan, and Robert. Our father died of a heart attack at age 67 and our mother at 83. Lowell and Joan, also, are deceased.

As we were growing up, we had to share a lot of things; in fact, I never had a new dress until I graduated from 8th grade. Until then all I had were hand-me-downs. But we had one of the best features a family can have; we had love. One of my memories was that on wash day there were always cornbread and soup beans on the cook stove. As that may suggest, our family was not well-to-do. Dad was a mechanic, mother a homemaker. We raised our own garden and canned our own vegetables. All of us had to work.

The family was all members of the Methodist church.  I received pins for perfect attendance. Also, I taught Sunday school and sang in the choir. I was very active in youth fellowship and served as president both for our local unit and the district.

I made my spending money by cleaning houses and baby sitting until I was old enough to work at the "5 and 10 cent" store on Saturdays. The name was literally true. The price of everything in the store was a nickel or dime. I remember Saturday night when I was working at the hose counter. They were all neatly arranged by sizes, but I looked up and saw one fellow grab a whole bunch of them and put them in his open shirt. In kind of a reflex action I said, "You put those back!" The boss gave me heck. When I left the store later, I was a bit afraid to walk home alone, but I saw no more of the man.

I really liked school but it is a wonder that I ever made it through because of all the complications.  In kindergarten I had three different teachers. I went to Garfield School, at the south end of Centerville, through the 5th grade, transferred to Central Ward for 6th grade only. They tore that building down and, in the middle of the year, school was held in the Armory.  They simply put a divider in the middle and you could hear what was going on in the other classrooms. For 7th & 8th grades we went to the junior high building.

At that time the high school burned, so during our freshman year lots of adjustments had to be made.  We shared classrooms with the 7th and 8th grades and cloak rooms were turned into class rooms.  My sophomore and part of junior years were spent in different buildings around the square; study halls were, again, in the Armory.  When the building was finished, except for the auditorium, we moved back into the high school building.  The gym became the assembly room.

For four years in high school I played violin and then string base in the orchestra. I had business courses-and participated in shorthand and typing contests. However, basketball became a large part of my schooling.  I was the first freshman in high school to be a first string player on the team and lettered all four years.  I used to babysit for the coach and he came by to ask my folks if they would let me play. They gave in on the condition that my grades wouldn't drop.  We went to the state tournament two years in a row.  In my junior and senior years we had a very successful team except for Numa and Seymour. There was such a rivalry between our two schools that we couldn't beat them on their floor and they couldn't beat us on ours.

We did not have school buses so our parents, along with the coach, principal and superintendent, took turns driving their cars. We had a good rapport with our school leaders. After the tournament in my senior year, the coach asked if I would play in the national tournament for A.I.C. (American Institute of Commerce).  The next year I entered that school on a basketball scholarship.  We won the tournaments two years in a row.

A.I.C. was in Davenport and the college gave basketball players a good rate on an apartment.   I shared it with four other girls, two from Seymour and one from Danville. We brought food from home and everybody shared costs.

During the year at A.I.C. we sometimes went to school in the evening because we were out of town a lot.  The team traveled by car and played in Little Rock, Nashville, and Winston Salem, North Carolina; in Cincinnati, Pittsburg, St. Louis; Mexico City and Guadalajara, Mexico.  The national tournament was at St. Joseph, Missouri.  This gave me an opportunity to travel, which I would not have had otherwise, because my folks couldn't have afforded it.

After I graduated, I went back to Centerville and went to work initially for B.A Fuller.  I was secretary for the two head men but the office was so cold that, when I got a chance, I went to work at the Gas Rationing Board.  I discussed this with the president of A.I.C., Steve Fenton.  He said that anytime you can better yourself, it is o.k. to change jobs.

That job proved to have an interesting development.  One day Dale Scritchfield walked in to get a ration of gas.  Dale and I had gone to school together since 4th grade. Now he was in military service and home on furlough.  I was engaged to another fellow but Dale asked me to go to dinner.  The folks thought it was all right since we'd gone to school together.  We went together all the while he was home on furlough, before he went overseas.  He said that he was going to take my engagement ring off, and that happened. I wrote my "Dear John" letter to the other fellow because I didn't think it was fair for him to come back home expecting us to take up where we had left off.

While I was still at the Ration Board, Bill Dillon came to ask if  I would work as secretary and bookkeeper in the quarry company, Dillon and Sharpe.  It was there I learned to crochet because I had to keep the office open in the winter even if they weren't processing rock.  Also, while I was there, in the winter I helped the lawyer next door and some of the lawyers for the railroad. At that time they were relocating the Rock Island railroad through Centerville.  While working days, I worked two nights a week as a volunteer at St. Joseph Hospital as a nurses' aide and helped coach the girls' basketball team.

Both my bosses were named Bill -Bill Dillon and Bill Sharpe - but they were as different as night and day.  Bill Dillon couldn't dictate so he would tell me what he wanted to say and I would write the letters. Bill Sharpe knew exactly what he wanted to say and how he wanted it said.

When Dale and I became engaged, the company was getting ready to move to Columbus Junction, so from the time that Dale returned from service and our wedding, I trained a high school girl, Elahvonne, to take my place.  Trying to help the transition, I said to Bill Sharpe, "Elahvonne is just in high school and can't be expected to take dictation as fast as I."  He tried.  I could hear him as he started slowly but then, as he talked, he got faster and faster.  She came into my office nearly in tears and said she hadn't gotten it all.  I helped her and we got the letter written, but I told her the next time to just tell him to stop.

Dale got out of service in January.  We were married and left immediately for Denver, Colorado on February 17, 1946.  Dale knew he could get a job and applied with Safeway Grocery Chain. We lived in a two-room apartment, which didn't give me much to do.  I had my thank-you notes out of the way and, since I had always worked, I went out and found a job.  Dale didn't
come home for lunch so I took the bus and told him I was going to work.  He wasn't very happy about it but I went to work the next day.

I worked for Colorado Builders and took dictation from the president, vice president and five different salesmen. In between, I filled in at the telephone switchboard, where I made conference calls, etc. Then I was offered a position at more money with War Assets where I was secretary.  I was about to move up as supervisor when Dale got a call about an opening with Hy-Vee and we came back to Iowa.

At this point Dale picks up the story:  I also was born in Centerville on November 3rd 1923.  My parents were Brae Scritchfield and Mary Masters Scritchfield.  They were of German descent.  My father lived to be 97 1/2 my mother nearly 75. She was diabetic, as I am, also.  We lived in the southern part of town and, if money is a measure, I, too, came from a very poor family. I well remember being embarrassed having to go to school in patched overalls.  I thought I was the only one and mentioned it to my mother.  She said, "Don't feel bad.  They are clean. You hold your head up high."

My father had only a 4th grade education but worked for an iron works company owned by a man of the Jewish faith.  I was brought up in the Nazarene church. I remember my father coming home with his $17 a week pay check.  He would sit down on Saturday night and figure 10% of his $17.  He put that aside and when I asked about it, his answer was, "This is the Lord's
money."  All the years I knew my father he always paid the 10% tithe.

Both Erma and I were educated in the Centerville schools, so we pretty much went through the same things, except for grades. I was probably a "b" and "c" student. I clearly remember a situation that came up while I was in high school. To help the family income, Mother took in washings.  A business man in town always had Mother wash his shirts.  One time when he came to pick them up, he noticed a little wrinkle on the collar. He threw the shirt on the floor!  I picked it up, gave it to him and told him, "From now on my mother doesn't do any washing for you!  I will pay her."

At that time I was working at Supply Store owned by Charlie Hyde and Dave Vredenburg. Dwight Vredenburg was store manager. I had been working at an oil station when Mr. Vredenburg wanted to hire me because he thought I'd make a good employee. At the request of the head meat cutter, I went to work in that department. That was where I learned to cut meat - by hand - no electric utensils at that time.  Then Dwight sent me to Shenandoah to learn more about cutting meat.

Mr. Dave Vredenburg came into the store and said, "We need a meat manager at Osceola."  They sent me to the meat market at Hyde’s, which was located in a little place on the south side of the square.  That was in 1942.   Roy Frizzell had been the manager of the store, and, when he went into the Army, Mac McGuire replaced him. I lived in an apartment east of the square, with a very nice lady, Zula Painter, who was Jack and Andy Jeffreys' mother.

I had some choices to make along the way.  My first love was working with wood. I took manual training and loved it.  While I was working at Supply Store, I was offered a job in a furniture factory. Some of the furniture that I had made was on display at the State Fair, and they saw it. But I had discovered that I also loved the grocery business and chose that.

The lives and careers of many fellows about my age were interrupted by military service in the early 1940's.  I enlisted in the Air Force and left Osceola in October of 1942. I was sent to Midland Texas to bombardier school where I discovered that I was color blind. That kept me out of the Cadet Corps.

I went through various trainings all over the United States.  I was given a 30-day furlough when my father broke his foot and that is when I went to the gas rationing office and found Erma. She could only give me five gallons of gas but, more important, that was when I asked her for a date.

Shortly after I returned from my furlough, I was assigned to the 13th Air Force and volunteered for Special Services.  When you are young, you tend to take some daring and dangerous courses. I was sent to the South Pacific in the Special Services division of the Air Force.

I have deliberately chosen to blank my time there out of my memory.  I was stationed in the Philippines, Guam, and New Guinea, where I got malaria. The water was unsanitary and the living conditions horrible. We were on Anguar and Saipan, Pelelieu in the Palau Islands and on Okinawa.

Okinawa was to be the jumping off place for the invasion of Japan.  We could expect to lose 1 1/2 million men; but it was at that time that President Truman ordered the atomic bomb to be dropped. That cost but also saved millions of lives. Japan surrendered.  We were to go to Japan after the bomb was dropped.  They loaded us on LSTs and we got into a terrible typhoon. The water was so rough that trucks, jeeps and artillery washed overboard.  They had to bring us back to Okinawa, where bodies were lying all over the bay area.

One coincidence was that, on a boat next to us, I heard a guy swearing and going on about the storm.  It turned out to be a next door neighbor whom I had gone to school with and we had our own reunion.

We went to Japan after the surrender.  We were at Chof Airbase, Ozaka, just outside Tokyo.  We expected the people to be hostile but they weren't. The emperor had told them to surrender and there was no animosity.  In fact, they were wonderful to us.  They craved chocolate and we had bars of it that we gave to the children. We also supplied cigarettes and other things that were in short supply.

After we were in Japan two months we visited Hiroshima. That was the most awesome thing I had ever seen!  How one bomb could tear up a city was unbelievable. I hope and pray we never have another atomic bomb dropped any place in the world!

When I was ready to be discharged, I had quite a bit of money. All of us would sell cigarettes that we had access to, to the Japanese. I had no way to change the money to American currency. A buddy offered to do that but I didn't trust him.  A Japanese family - a man, his wife and daughter - cleaned our barracks and polished our shoes.  One day I asked the man, "What could you do with this money?" He said, "I could buy a farm"; so I gave it to him. To show their appreciation they invited me to their home.  I ate their food, and they gave me a Japanese flag he had been given for valor in the war in China. He had had his right hand blown off during the fighting.

I often think about the way we fought and killed those people, and they killed us; but when we meet on different grounds we discover they are just like us. They want to live. They have families. The Japanese soldiers whom we killed had family pictures in billfolds just like we did.  War does terrible things!

I had a chance to fly home but I chose to come by boat.  We landed in Tacoma, Washington and a family of eight invited me to their home for Christmas dinner. I came back to Iowa and Erma and I made plans to get married. When I asked Erma's father if l could marry her, he asked if l was sure I could support his daughter. I didn't even have a job.

We were married on February 17, 1946 in the Methodist Church in Centerville by Reverend Greenwood. We had a big church wedding and I was scared to death. It was then I realized, boy! what have I gotten myself into! What a lot of responsibility I was taking on!

I looked up a job with Safeway in Denver.  I will never forget when I went to apply at their headquarters. I said, "I'd love to have a job" and the answer was, "So would seven million others. Why should I hire you?" I said, "I'm a meat cutter"; and he said, "You're hired." So after we were married, we went to Denver, and I went to work for Safeway.

I went to work first at Golden, Colorado.  The manager was in a mess.  He had lost his second man.  The first question he asked was, "Do you know anything about cutting meat?" I said, "I sure do." We filled the meat counter.  I really liked the manager but Safeway needed me elsewhere, so they brought me back to south Denver.  They had nine or ten butchers in that store. Each man had a block.  The first block was the manager, the second the assistant manager.  I was ninth.  The second man notified me that I was to scrape the blocks, apply salt and water to clean them, sweep, and carry out bones.  In other words, I was more or less a janitor.

The following week we got around 15 carcasses of beef and the second man wasn't there, so the meat manager said they would need someone to break them down into quarters and hang them in coolers.  No one else wanted or knew how to do that.  I spent all afternoon cutting the meat in quarters to hang on hooks.  After the meat manager saw what I could do, he told me that I was to take the block next to him. The man who had been his second man was moved down. That gave me the opportunity to tell him what I expected him to do.

Then I went to an Aurora meat shop closer to where we lived. We were in Denver for nine months.  We lived in an apartment owned by Ray and Maxine Green formerly of Centerville.

At that time Dwight Vredenburg wrote to tell me he had a spot for me. I told Safeway that I was going to leave.  They offered me a job in any of the 55 stores and I thanked them but told them I was going back to Iowa and work for Supply Stores.  They'd never heard of them and couldn't understand my decision.  "Here you are in a union shop working 40 hours a week.  You'll go back there and work 60 hours."  They were right but I've never been afraid of work.  Work never hurt anybody.  I came back to Iowa and went to work for Raymond Hughes, store manager at Chariton.  I worked there, in the meat market, approximately four years.

Dwight Vredenburg was now president of the company and asked me if I would like to be a store manager.  I thought I was making pretty good money but he said that would be peanuts compared to what I could make as manager, so I took it.  I ran the Chariton store for six years, transferred to Centerville, ran it for six years, then Indianola, Iowa opened.  It would have been attractive but I was told I couldn't have it.  Ford was retiring and he intended that his son must have the store, so we came to Osceola.

We had been in Osceola less than six months when I was asked if led go to Knoxville. The president and vice president knew I wasn't going to take it but I said I'd think it over. I drove to Knoxville and looked at the store but decided to stay in Osceola. The children were in school and didn't want to move.  We'd bought a lot by Grade Lake but hadn't started building.

I ran the Osceola store for 17 years and retired in May, 1980, having completed 40 years with Hy-Vee, including time in the Armed Service. When I went to see Mr. Vredenburg and told him I'd like to retire, his response was, “Oh, Dale, you're too young. Are you having family troubles?  Cancer?  Is the supervisor giving you trouble?"  In each case I said no; in the last, "No more than usual."  I told him that I was 56 and that it had always been my plan to retire at 50. Now I was six years overdue.

Mr. Vredenburg couldn't believe I hadn't even asked Erma.  Finally he looked at the stock status and said I could retire, "If you are sure you want to. First, you'd better tell your wife and then the employees because it will be in the newsletter.  Other managers want to bid for stores." I will never forget the day I retired.

All this while, Erma has worked, also. In summary, she was secretary for five school superintendents: Mr. Lunan, Chariton; Mr. Dunsmore, Centerville; Mr. Mahaffey, Dr. Ward and Mr. Riekena of Osceola.  She was also secretary to Dean Newsham of a junior college.  While doing this she also did the bookkeeping and checking at the Hy-Vee store for Dale, along with inventory every month.  She served as president of the high school P.T.A. (Parent/Teachers' Association).

Through Dale's store connection with different salesmen, he was able to get the outfield fence materials free of charge for a Little League field in Centerville and a Little League and Babe Ruth field here.  In addition, they donated the back stop and all the side fences for the Babe Ruth field.  Dale Eugene never got to play on the one at Centerville because that was at the time when the family moved to Osceola.

Dale was president of the church board in the mid-1960's when the new Osceola United Methodist Church was built.  He was also on the Hy-Vee Board of Directors and Osceola Chamber of Commerce.

Retirement has not ended the Scritchfields' activity.  Dale and Erma have continued a tradition which adds up to 43 years of Dale cutting up 4-10 carcasses of beef for Raymond and Maxine Johnson, and. Raymond's sister Betty and husband Gene Burgus, of Chariton.  This is a family operation that happens each January.  In earlier days Dale cut the meat by hand, now by electric saws and grinders.  Erma wraps it. This year the crew processed five animals on Saturday, six on Sunday.  In appreciation, they give Dale and Erma a hog and some beef   After they had cut those up and had come back home late Sunday afternoon, they had to go to Des Moines to buy another freezer.  Dale recognizes that the boys need to start learning and so he is teaching their sons.

The Burguses are the kind of people who would give the shirts off their backs. They are always willing to lend a hand. In addition to the above, they also give Dale walnut from trees on their farm, which is greatly appreciated; for Dale has never abandoned his love for wood and woodworking that he had as a high school student.  While at the stores, he would often go home and work in his shop until midnight.  Through the years he has made grandfather clocks - of oak for Shirley and of walnut for Dale and Marleta - as well as much of the furniture in their home and many gifts.

Erma's sister, Wauneita, served as pastor of the Russell/Bethel United Methodist churches for 14 years.  During that time she engineered the merger of the Presbyterian and United Methodist congregations and they built a church.  Dale made for them all three of their crosses - one over the front entrance, 4-5' tall; the battered cross above the altar, and the outside cross which is 15' tall made from 4x6 lumber.  That cross was an after-thought.   The contractor would construct it at an estimated cost of over $1,000.  Dale offered to do it if they would pay for the cost of materials.  Agreed.

For the Osceola United Methodist Church, Dale made the manger for the crèche. The wood was a piece of decayed walnut, which he had thought of burning.  However, Erma says, "he keeps everything"; and this was exactly right for the manger.  He has made boxes for the sound equipment, receptacles for bulletins to be recycled, a walnut footstool to enable children to drink from the water fountain and he has just finished a sign to go above United Methodist Women’s bulletin board.  The background is of oak, the letters of walnut.  He is particularly pleased with it because he made it after his loss of sight.

Recognition of Dale's art and expertise came in the form of an invitation to join with the artisans of Branson, Missouri, to exhibit his crafts. This is an honor, for no one can apply to be included.  It would also have been extremely lucrative.  However, it would mean a commitment of about seven months out of every year and they chose not to accept.  They enjoy their freedom.

For 10 years, they have, off and on, traveled and camped with a 33' motor home, pulling a car behind it.  The home is completely outfitted even with a German made $981 saw with which Dale can do intricate, detailed work and continue his woodworking when on the road.

They have met many, many good friends from Naples, Florida, to Alaska to Oregon to Texas.  Some of them are full-timers, who have sold their homes and live on the road.  Dale and Erma belong to a national hook-up, Coast to Coast, with Cutty's as their home base.  This organization allows members to go into camp grounds that have arranged protective measures including security guards at the gates.  There are indoor and outdoor swimming pools, badminton and tennis courts, miniature golf and a club room used for gatherings and church services.  They also belong to the Treasure Lake Association in Branson.  Members can stay as long as 21 days out of every month.  It is probable that they would have gone full time, as they say, "if  it hadn't been for Mama."

Dale’s father died in 1990 at age 97.  He had remarried at age 83 and Dale’s step-mother is still living at Centerville.  She will be 98 in April She is still living in her own apartment, doing her own cooking.  She loves to shop and Dale and Erma go every other week to take her. They commented, "We hope our children will look after us as well as we look after her."

The Scritchfields have not been immune to problems.  Six years ago Erma had breast cancer at the same time she was fighting lupus. She did not panic but had the attitude that what would be, would be. If God willed, she would be fine.  She had a lumpectomy followed by six weeks of radiation.  She currently sees her cancer doctor every six months and the lupus is under control with medication.  It is the medicine used for malaria during World War II and they don’t know why it works, but it works.  When she golfs or works outside, she must wear clothes that protect her from the sun.

In the first part of November, 1996, Dale suddenly could not see himself in the mirror.  It was on a Sunday morning as they were getting ready to go to church. The routine was to have breakfast and read parts of the paper. Erma noticed that Dale got the magnifying glass and was trying to read.  When she asked, he said that he suddenly couldn’t see.  He told, "you can't imagine how you feel when you have sight, then suddenly, it's gone.  All sorts of things go through your mind-things you have enjoyed doing that you might not be able to continue. It’s a real downer!

They called Iowa City on Monday to his vascular ophthalmologist who told him that he would not regain the sight of his eye. He had the equivalent of a stroke. The blood vessel behind the eye broke and swelled the optic nerve and the blood stayed behind the eye. This was the second time this had happened.  The first time was about six years ago - the same time Erma discovered she had cancer.  Dale went along to his doctor’s appointment and he immediately sent them on to Iowa City.  At that time the doctor said he would never regain any of his sight, but in January he had gained about 5% in the left eye and 30% in the right eye. It is a peripheral type vision.

Dale admits that it is depressing not to be able to read or write but he still goes to his workshop every day. He must have bright light and have his face close to his work. "It takes me three times longer than it used to, but what we have is time.  I hate to think of giving up traveling. I have confidence in Erma's driving but if something were to happen, I can't back her up.  I have made progress, and keep hoping that my sight will continue to improve.  The Christian friends here in Osceola, Dale's church in Des Moines, Shirley's church in Omaha, and those that we have met as we have traveled are praying for me.  Shirley has even asked for prayers on the internet and we get e-mail letters from everywhere assuring us they are praying!"  The next step will be going to the Commission on the Blind in Des Moines to see if they have a magnifying glass that will help.  "We don't know why things happen but they do and you've got to roll with the punches. We don't give up.

"We have had a full life, have many good friends and acquaintances, three wonderful children: Shirley Ann married to Thomas Kodera, is a Director of Institutional Research and Assessment at Creighton University, Omaha, Nebraska; Dale Eugene, married to Marleta Poore, is a vice-president of a food brokerage in Des Moines, and Roberta Kay.  We do not know where she is but hope that one day she will "see the light."  In the meantime we ask God to take care of her.

"We also have three grandchildren: Megan Eileen (Dale and Marleta's) is married to Andrew Ramspott and lives in Omaha, Nebraska; Tyler Bryant Scritchfield, lives in Des Moines, and Jonathan Scritchfield Kodera (Shirley's and Thomas' son) is in Omaha.  We see we have much to be thankful for. We thank God every morning for our many blessings."

 

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